Never depend on what someone else thinks of you, before you form your own opinion of yourself. If you don’t believe you are good enough, no one else will either. Even, people can tell you all day what you want to hear, but the final decision of what you think of you – is still up to you… and the end of the day, when you have fully processed it in your mind. Therefore, what you think of you… is critical. Usually, you will approach life, and make important decisions, which will affect your future – based on how you see yourself.
In life, what you allow in your mind is usually what will continue… and carry out into your actions. The unhappiest people in this world are the people who already experience unhappy thoughts in their mind, long before they ever have close relationships with other people.
On the other hand, some people can be mean for no reason, and they don’t regard people’s feelings. So, it’s always better to spend more time alone than to allow negative people and their opinions to derail you from your destiny… especially if you are trying hard to pull your mental thoughts together so you can grow as a person, and be successful.
Here are some important things to remember to help give you mental clarity and keep your mind focused on the positive side of life – as you are growing and maturing daily:
When other people treat you poorly, walk away, smile and keep being YOU. Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness change the person you are.
Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth. It’s their loss, not yours.
One of the most freeing things we learn in life is that we don’t have to like everyone, everyone doesn’t have to like us, and that’s OK.
When someone says, “You’ve changed,” it’s not always a bad thing. Sometimes it just means you stopped living your life their way.
Never be ashamed of how you feel. You have the right to feel any emotion that comes to you, and to follow a path that makes you happy.
True happiness and success is all about spending your life in your own way. You are made in the image of GOD… so Be yourself. You don’t have to accept it if other people tell you you’re doing life wrong. It’s your choice. Please GOD… please you… be good to others, and the rest of life will fall into place.